Many of us subconsciously use gestures while we talk. In most cases, they’re innocent movements. We wave to greet somebody on the other side of the room. We give a thumbs-up to people when we’re pleased. And when we’re quoting another person, we sometimes make those marks in the air with our fingers.

But in other cultures, some of our everyday gestures are obscene or insulting. If you interact with somebody from one of these places, it’s a good idea to know what your body language is really saying to him or her. The more you know, the less likely you are to inadvertently insult someone or accidentally give that person the wrong idea.

When you nod your head, you’re saying “yes” or agreeing with the other person. But in some parts of the world (like Greece and Bulgaria), the nod is actually “no” or an indication of disagreement.

In many Middle Eastern cultures, the left hand is not used very often. That’s the “cleanup hand,” so offering it to somebody as a greeting, or when passing an object to him or her, is just rude.

Giving someone the “okay” sign (making a circle with one finger while the other three point upward) usually means “That sounds good to me” or “I like that.” Be careful, though, as this gesture’s meaning varies from one culture to another. In Japan, the gesture indicates money. In Germany and Brazil, the “okay” sign is an obscene gesture. And in France, it stands for “zero” or “worthless.”

The “come here” gesture that you make by wiggling your index finger is rude in many other cultures. Plus, many Americans are annoyed by this gesture. It’s probably best to avoid using it at all.

Another finger-related problem is pointing. Your Mom probably told you that it’s rude to point – and it is! In many cultures of the Far and Middle East, pointing with the index finger is a no-no. Instead, people point with the entire hand or, in some instances, the thumb.

Passing a small item – money, for example – to another person usually requires only one hand. In Japan, people use both hands, even when it’s not physically necessary. Using just one hand is an insult.

These are just a few of the gestures that can be taken the wrong way. Before you make your trip to another country, pick up a book on local etiquette and customs. You’ll find lots of valuable information, some of which can help you avoid a lot of glares from the people around you.

Another good way to figure out what’s going on is to watch what people of that culture do. Don’t be afraid to ask what a gesture means. In most cases, the other person will be glad to explain to you. This offers you a great opportunity to tell that person what the gesture means in your own culture. The “customs exchange” can be a valuable lesson for you both.

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