In this article I am going to give you a success formula for getting your ex girlfriend back. The advice is given from the excellent book “The Magic of Making up” and my own experience.

The first thing you need to do is answer the though question:

Why did you break up in the First Place?

Take some time with a notepad and analyze why the breakup happened. Did she break up with you, or did you break up with her. Was there a third person in the picture? Did one of you bore the other or not give as much back as you used to when you started dating? Did you act irresponsible, annoying or anything similar?

You should consider the feedback you have gotten from your ex girlfriend, as well as what you felt yourself during the time you were still together and during the break up phase.

Many girls loose interest in their boyfriend when they start taking her for granted. If you started to behave differently when you had been together for a while, and stopped giving her the excitement she needed, this might be the reason she broke up.

Girls also like being appreciated. They like being your chosen number one. If you constantly ignored her attempts to make your life a little more romantic, this might be the reason why she lost interest.

You Can Only Change Yourself

Before you start working on getting your ex girlfriend back you need to realize that you can only change yourself. As much as you wished your ex girlfriend was different, you can only change your own behavior. If you want to change your girlfriend’s behavior you might as well stop focusing on how to get your ex girlfriend back and rather get out and meet other girls.

When it comes to changing yourself you have to understand what reasons your girlfriend had to break up with you. Use your notes from later and see where you could try to improve.

Do not seem needy

To act desperate is not the right way to get your ex girlfriend back. Calling her every day, leaving message on her phone or crying and explaining why you are a perfect match will more often than not only work against you.

Instead you should live your life as normal as you can. Get active and show yourself that you can live without her by your side. The goal is not to make her feel jealous, but to let her see that you are a strong man.

A great guide that will help you towards getting your ex girlfriend back can be found here: How to Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back – The Magic of Making Up. This book will help you avoid all the pitfalls that you’re lightly to fall into right now, and help you towards doing the right things to get her back.

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